Services

TELOS DESTINATION METHOD COACHING

Balwin Ratra offers personalized private TDM coaching sessions designed to help you reconnect with your core purpose, remove internal blocks, and accelerate your personal transformation.
The Telos Destination Method is a powerful, soul-centered framework that integrates neuroscience, spiritual principles, and mindset work to remove unnecessary suffering and help you align with your highest path. Balwin’s coaching combines this method with tools from NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), guided introspection, and energetic alignment practices.
The goal with each client is different but some of the areas of unnecessary suffering we can resolve using TDM coaching include: Anxiety, Fear, Unhappiness, Self-Criticism, Financial Struggles, Physical & Emotional Pain, Fatigue, Addiction, Over Eating, Limiting Beliefs, Codependency, Toxic Relationships, Jealousy & Anger.

What You Can Expect:

  • 1 on 1 Private TDM Coaching Sessions (in-person in NYC or online via Zoom)
  • A safe, confidential space to explore your vision, challenges, and goals
  • Practical techniques to dissolve unnecessary suffering and patterns
  • Deep alignment with your Telos – your soul’s ultimate destination
  • Integration of NLP, spirituality and intuitive insights that create lasting change
  • Actionable next steps that bridge the inner work with real-world results

Who It’s For:

  • Individuals seeking coaching for clarity, purpose, or a next-level breakthrough
  • Entrepreneurs, creatives, and leaders ready to move beyond fear or doubt
  • Anyone feeling stuck, unfulfilled or disconnected from their purpose in life

Session Structure & Pricing:

Each session is 90 minutes and uniquely tailored to you. We begin with identifying where you are, clarifying where you’re headed, and uncovering the deeper internal shifts that must occur for lasting change.

15-min Intro Call                               FREE

In-Person Session                             $225

Online Zoom Session                       $150

Transformational Connection

Experience deep connection, presence, and transformation through Circling — a relational practice that invites you into profound contact with yourself. In these sessions, we slow down and explore the present moment together, using curiosity, authentic expression, and deep listening. Deepening into the present moment allows us to explore the infinite potential of connection

The “Birthday Circle” is an experience of “being seen” for who you authentically are. As a Certified Coach under Circling Europe of the ICF, Balwin guides you in a space where your truth is welcomed, your experience is honored, and relational insights emerge naturally. Whether you’re looking to cultivate self-awareness, improve communication, or deepen your relationships, Circling offers a powerful path to inner clarity and interpersonal resonance

The benefits of Circling include increasing your emotional range, getting to the core of what really matters to you, alchemizing deep internal and relational challenges, increased intimacy, building self-trust and expanding beyond the self, and getting back into your body and authenticity.

What You Can Expect:

  • 1 on 1 Private “Birthday Circle” Session (in-person in NYC or online via Zoom)
  • Brief Guided Meditation Practice
  • Exploration of what your experience and world is like
  • Open exploratory period of communication and interaction
  • Support in integrating presence and connection into everyday life

Who It’s For:

  • Individuals seeking personal insight through connection
  • Couples or small groups desiring relational depth
  • Coaches, leaders, and seekers curious about authentic relating
  • Anyone seeking spiritual insights and awakenings

Session Structure & Pricing:

During a “Birthday Circle” Experience, Balwin maintains the structure where the focus of attention and curiosity is on one person – You. Each session is a unique co-creation — there’s no script, only the unfolding moment and our willingness to meet it with openness.

45-min Birthday Circle                $75

Payment & Policies

  • Sessions must be paid in full.
  • Cash, Paypal and Zelle are accepted.
  • A minimum of 24-hour notice is required for cancellations and rescheduling.
  • There are no refunds if you miss an appointment or fail to give at least a 24-hour notice of cancellation.

New Clients - Contact for Discounted First Coaching Session!

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What clients Say

Zi

I reached out to Balwin to help me overcome a continuous cycle of motivation/unmotivation in launching my business. He helped me identify and isolate limiting beliefs, and other unconscious ideas that always accompanied my loss of motivation. I love his visualization techniques and how it helps me put words and images into feelings and ideas. I’m glad to have him accompany me in my new journey. I can’t wait for our next session.

John Meade

Balwin holds a calm, clear, and loving presence that supports one to open up in safety. And he asks the perfect questions to guide you to the heart of your issues and is a great listener. I ended my session with a peaceful assurance of a new way of being around the issue we addressed.

Marshall Graebar

I knew that there was something off in the way I was communicating with my wife but for the life of me I couldn't see what it was. Balwin was able to see what I was doing and held me with care and attention as he told me the truth I was blind to. He shared his sight with compassion and delivered his insights on a way that I could really see and feel what I had been missing! Thanks to Balwin's skill and compassion as a coach and a person, I was able to gain new perspective and understanding in my relationship with my wife and make a change that felt better for both of us!

Stephen Nieves

Balwin’s coaching was instrumental in learning how to truly be vulnerable as a man. When I learned to be vulnerable, it helped me restore connections with friends and family alike. It made me feel in touch with my emotions again. That was such a delicate space to navigate alone. Balwin has a very fine tuned skill as a coach to find the "spot" with careful and mindful precision. His coaching style is very gentle yet penetrating enough to quickly get past stories and negative self talk. His coaching has also taught me the value of connection. Something I deprived myself of for decades as I was very introverted and desensitized. Connection just feels so good compared to living an isolated life without connection. I highly recommend Balwin Ratra's life coaching to anyone seeking personal growth and healing.

I recently came upon Balwin through a friend and attended one of his private discussions in Midtown Manhattan. I left with a better perspective of those around me and truly enjoyed my time engaging in meaningful conversations where I was able to share my input on various topics and prompts. The environment was welcoming, thoughtful, and inspiring. I’m grateful to have come across the community Balwin has built and look forward to attending more discussions in the future.
Balwin is a world class listener. His warm gentle presence rapidly gave me a deep feeling of safety. — I felt safe and empowered enough to go deep and we made *real* changes…

In my experience provides easy fast permanent life-changing results! I can’t recommend this guy’s coaching enough. Give him a call if you’re ready for a change.
Balwin is a truly talented coach. The way he slows down and makes sure he really hears and understands what I’m saying fosters a trust that allows me to reach profound growth and healing. The TDM tools are life changing in and of themselves but Balwin’s extensive knowledge of the tools makes him a brilliant coach and helps me achieve amazing results.
Balwin, a coach I look up to learn from and with.
Balwin, your presence, your silence is not only for your own interest, I feel your genuine curiosity to hear what needs to be heard.

I have worked with Balwin numerous times and each time was a time of not only learning, but healing parts of me that I do not dare to address very often. I am a strong spirit, but when in coaching session with Balwin my body sinks in, listens, brings up feelings my “heroic” lifestyle won’t allow me to feel.
Out of few sessions, one is an amazing experience when Balwin helped me solve a painful memory. I thought it was solved because of the long time passed, but when Balwin listened to me so closely, I allowed myself to recognize that it still hurts. It was a 9-10 level of suffering. He listened, he paid attention to the parts of me that I ignored and I tried to burry. I felt safe in that session to address my “swiped under the rug memory”.
After the session the pain was barely a level 1. Today, talking about that memory is just as easy and pain free like telling any other story, or a joke.
I must mention that the week after that session my heart was at peace. A peace I never felt in my heart all my life. The day after the process I felt like something (a stinger?) got pulled out of my heart, I felt that concave spot of something missing (like when a missing tooth) but also healing. I had moments I had to stop my activities and touch my heart to see if it still beating. It was so much peace that I thought my heart was not beating… I even co considered going to a doctor to check it out. of course it was till beating:: peacefully.

Thank you, Balwin.
Balwin is a kind, compassionate, and deeply earnest soul, and he is committed to his craft of TDM coaching. As his peer in TDM training and someone who has received his coaching, I trust that anyone could come to him with any issue and he would receive them lovingly and devote himself to helping them resolve their suffering. I recommend the services and resources he offers wholeheartedly and wish him the very best in his practice.
Balwin has been awesome to work with. He is a gem of a human-being, and his sincerity, skill, and commitment have made our coaching work together powerful, effective, and feel truly loving, and safe. I feel blessed, and grateful to have him on my guided, self-healing journey, and I'll gladly continue to work with him.
Balwin is an incredibly compassionate and capable coach. With his deep listening, effective tools, and innate kindness, working with Balwin is an incredibly transformative and beautiful experience. I highly recommend his services!
Balwin is a precious soul and powerful coach! I highly recommend his services!
I had a deeply transformative hypnotherapy session with the coach, Balwin Ratra, and I can’t recommend his services enough. He created a safe and supportive space where I felt truly heard and understood. Through the session, I was able to uncover the root causes of some long-standing issues and gain a clearer understanding of myself. His approach is thoughtful, compassionate, and highly effective. If you’re looking for meaningful personal growth or clarity in your life, I highly recommend working with him.